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Nights

Posted on: September 6th, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

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Nights like these my mind wanders about the relationship

The relationship that pushed me to the brink 

My emotions have diminished but they are far from gone

I find myself relating my life to the words of every slow song that plays on the quiet storm

But truthfully I just want my life back but the though of you being in my future is far from gone and no part of me would deny it

My heart deepens at every sound that reminds me of you, your beauty, your laughter and your smile

As I listen to a song with no words my mind speaks loud and clear, letting my know that love is not only a verb but a process that goes on

Though I wish I could find an end to this song of no words because it has been in my head for far too long.

Levels of Respect

Posted on: August 31st, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

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Trent Shelton, a motivational speaker presented the topic on men and women and the levels of respect.

 

“Men let’s stop disrespecting women and women let’s stop disrespecting men. All men and women aren’t bad, it’s just the ones you choose to date. Not saying it’s ok for someone to break your heart but you should be mindful of the type  of person you choose to give your heart to.”

 

 

Many would say the overall concept and definition of dating has definitely change and a lot of ways are not traditional. With the continuous  growth of technology and resources such as matchmakers, dating websites and online dating. With these changes or even when traditionally dating, people tend to fall in one type of category or are drawn to the same thing which can lead to the same results, disrespect being one of them.

 

 

Rather people want to believe it or not change can be intimidating which is why they usually go for what they know, it’s obtainable, predictable and safe. At times we rather be comfortable instead of accepting change  but expect different results . Instead of going after what your heart desires and wants try giving it something in needs. It may not be what your use and may be something different but at times change is needed to make things better.

 

 

 

Are you ready to accept change?

Pain is Pleasure and Pleasure is Pain

Posted on: August 28th, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

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What happens when you are caught in a trap that you couldn’t even foresee. You are no longer free and full of life because you have become a distraction and not just any distraction but that of a person who was caught in bad place, in search of anything or something to fill this empty space.

 The lines were crossed, you tried putting them in their place and sticking to your decision but slowly as water defeats an eroding rock, your tough exterior begins to wither away and you become very soft and open to different suggestions.

 Tried to be a good confidant and friend to lift them up in the time of need and vulnerability but now who will care for you in this time of need. After your heart is tampered and toyed with, leaving your emotions lost and wandering, where do you turn. You weren’t just trapped into the idea of being a distraction but in the end your emotions may have gotten the best of you.

The Balance

Posted on: July 13th, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

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How important is the physicality in a relationship? Can it be the making or breaking point at times or is it somewhat unnoticed?

 

Physical intimacy is very important within a relationship. Sure it may need other aspects to aide and support the notion but let alone it is still important. For those who have been in relationships or commitments for years will explain how keeping the fire burning can be a very challenging situation at times but without it a glitch can arise within your relationship.

 

 

Most women are naturally in tune with their emotions leading them to be strong in that aspect; even thought they can be looked upon as emotional beings. This is why they look forward to the emotional bond being shared within a relationship but love to combine the emotional and the physical.  Men also can be very in tuned with their emotions but are not as easily shown like those of a woman. Men are truly physical beings but a man who can combined both aspects within a relationship will truly make his lady happy.

 

 

 

A relationship should entail many characteristics such as commitment, loyalty, trust but don’t forget the adventure, enjoyment, excitement and keeping things feeling fresh and new those are the key things to elongating a relationship. You wouldn’t let a rose bush just shrivel and die you care for it so it can blossom and grow.  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

-C.Johnson

Kamikaze

Posted on: July 11th, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

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Kamikaze love….

 

 

In too deep from the jump

 

 

I have placed my all, my everything

 

 

Laid out for us both

 

 

 

I just want you to see the feelings that lie deep inside of a tough shell

 

 

 

I want you to know everything because this is my last and final love

 

 

 

If I’m diving in there is not coming back

 

 

 

Either we stay here together or I’ll disappear forever

 

 

 

No more breakups to makeups

 

 

 

I’m done with wanting and yearning

 

 

 

I love loving you, I love us but if it ever ends

 

 

 

 

There is no more love.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

-C.Johnson

Life Partners

Posted on: July 9th, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

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Most people that you know want a life partner but how will they know when they have found that special someone?

 

Do you feel being in love automatically presents you with your life partner  or is it a stepping stool to work on the idea? There is nothing wrong with wanting a successful relationship, having certain preferences or dealing with the likes and dislike of a relationship but by finding a life partner can bring a balance and compliments within it.

 

Is it the feeling, emotions and rush of excitement when you’re around them or the emptiness, loneliness and want, when you’re not around them. As most emotions are, love itself can easily be one of the most confusing concepts to deal with because there are so many variables. Falling in love or out of love is easier than one would think but finding someone to be with for the rest of your life takes more time than most think. There’s a difference between loving someone, being in love with them and choosing to spend the rest of your life with them because even marriages at times  are broken before death do you part.

 

Though fairy tales and love stories on the movie screens look and sound nice. there is no complete truth in how “true love” is found. True love has its ups and downs but within those challenges people are able to find what they are looking for in their significant others. Within the process of finding a life partner one should experience the journey to do so because it will not just appear in front of your eyes or drop from the sky.

 

 

 

-C.Johnson

Tapping Out

Posted on: July 2nd, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

 

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Most relationships have its ups and downs just as most things in life but when is enough just enough and there are no more ways of crossing the line? If needed, when should a person tap out and move on?

 

Did you know, in the United States roughly 30 to 60% of all married individuals will partake in acts of infidelity and if that’s not enough, divorce rates are just as high.

 

The act of cheating is not always from a physical standpoint but it is a common way of infidelity.
It is becoming more ordinary among people under the age of 30 and many believe the increase levels of cheating, stems from time spent away from a spouse. As they say, when the cat’s away the mice will play: people who spend a lot of time away from their significant other become victims to this madness. It becomes easier to develop a habit of having multiple sexual partners before getting married.

 

Physically it has been proven that men are more likely to cheat than women but with the increased levels of infidelity, statistics have shown  women that are financially independent begin to act more like men with respect to infidelity. It is sad to say but during times like this it almost seems challenging to trust your own partner because of the unknown.

 

In a relationship, trust and respect are two important and vital signs which aides a couple to move forward and progress. Along with trust, when couples reach a certain level in their relationship, expectations and dependency becomes very evident but what happens if the trust is betrayed.

 

 

 

-C.Johnson