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Serial Monogamy- yes or no?

Posted on: January 17th, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

Decades ago, people used to DATE. You can imagine in the 1950s where young people went to soda shops or hung out at the drive-ins in their colored Cadillacs. Fooling around, sure but sex was considered taboo. I would say to imagine the movie “Grease” but they had more sexual innuendos than I would like for this example.

However, move on a few years later, free love ran around as free as the people. Move farther on into the 80s and 90s and people became more careful because of sexual diseases. Those decades prepared us for sexual education classes, raising awareness of sexual diseases and more. Therefore, serial monogamous dating does exist but I still fear that there will become more hook-ups instead of seriously dating.

In my own opinion, I would rather have a few serious relationships instead of a lot of hook-ups. I’m just not that kind of girl. No judgment because if you want to get some action, then go for it. I have friends who would rather hook-up because they want to, and that’s fine. To each their own! I know they want to find the right guy or girl for them later on and that’s all that matters. J I also know that some people prefer to keep their options open. Honestly, I’m not looking for a serious relationship at the moment but it’s always an option. :)

So what’s your opinion on serial monogamy? Yes, no, maybe so?

**To read the article that inspired this post, read more here: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/julia-plevin/the-latest-in-college-dat_b_160648.html