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Don't Give Up!!

Posted on: February 14th, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle 7 Comments

Happy Valentine’s Day Eve! :)

Whether or not you celebrate with a significant other, remember to have fun. If you’re currently single, gather your closest girlfriends and plan something to do together anyways! Girls’ night in or go out on the town. Remember that you love yourself and that you are surrounded with those who love you!

I have one lesson for you before V-Day strikes!

Lesson 20: Giving up and giving in: When you feel like giving up or giving in, these are signs that you may feel powerless, frustrated, undeserving or unheard by your mate. This does not mean that you should settle for less! When you settle for less, this means that your potential mate does not see that your thoughts, needs, attitudes, beliefs and wants are legitimate or necessary.

Compromise and negotiating are essential to any relationship, especially when you and/or your partner may both be stubborn in your own beliefs. However, compromise and negotiating can only happen when both persons in the relationship honor and respect each other’s thoughts, values, needs and beliefs with each person’s hopes, dreams and wants.

Don’t settle for less!!

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