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Power Couples… You inspire me.

Posted on: December 15th, 2017 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

Pinky: “Gee, Brain, what do you want to do tonight”?

Brain: “The same thing we do every night, Pinky – try to take over the world”!pinky

           

For those that remember, without “pinky” there was no “brain” and vise versa.

 

The words “Power couples” might be a catch-phrase that sets the tone of the relationship, but it is also something that is proving to be true. Power couples do things differently, but what makes a power couple? Let’s look at some examples of those who have been wildly successful individually, as well as seem to have an unbreakable relationship bond.

 

Barack and Michelle Obama, Bill and Hillary Clinton, Kelly Rippa and Michael Consuelos, Will and Jada Smith and
Duane and Tisha Campbell-Martin.

 

Not everyone is this successful and wealthy, but then being a power couple is not only reserved for the mega wealthy and successful. Just about every crowd features at least one of these couples.

 

keyThey are awesome together, and awesome people as individuals too.

 

keyThey support each other completely and don’t depend on anyone for their sense of self-worth.

 

keyThis couple has that something special that people can see immediately, and it lights up the world.

 

 

                         keyLets take a look at some more of these essential keys.key

 

 

 

keyThey are optimistic and know they have value.

 

key Each of them makes up for what the other might lack, and they are key confidantes.

 

keyThey work hard to improve their own individuality as well as, as a pair.

 

key Working constantly and confidently to become better connected.

 

keyThey work harder to deserve one another.

 

keyA couple such as this supports each-others pursuits and ambitions completely, and are equal partners.

 

keyBoth of them value equality, and will do their fair share inside the home, as well as outside the home.

 

 

 

For example Bill and Hillary Clinton. They support each of the others political ideologies and careers. She supported his aspirations when he was President, and he championed for her and supported her 2016 presidential run.

 

keyPower couples make time for themselves, and time to be together. They often exercise together and enjoy the same sort of sporting activities, and can spend time on their own passion projects.

 

keyWhen their relationship is no longer working they stick together to work it out, or know when to call it quits, and are private about it.

 

keyEvolving separate careers as well as a family together is the kind of thing that successful power couples do.

keyThey are both already complete when they meet, equal in attitude, style, and often finance and career.

keyThey come from every neck of the woods from the trailer park to the highest echelon of super stardom, to overcome the odds together by simply being all that they can both possibly be.

keyThey do not sacrifice career ambitions, they compromise, and don’t need to validate one another as being worthy.

keyThese are not glamorous appendages to a successful or powerful spouse, they are equal in everything. Will Smith said it best “If you are absent during my struggle, don’t expect to be present during my success”. This is kind of commitment is for better or for worse.

 

 

When we focus on fixing what’s wrong, we focus on the problem.

 

“Whatever we focus our attention on will inevitably grow.”

 

Instead, work together to focus on solutions, strengths and goals.

 

Enjoy the Journey …

Straight & Honest talk with a former exotic dancer-Now Executive and Ready to Become a Wife

Posted on: September 4th, 2014 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

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Uncensored Interview:

 

 

Straight & Honest talk with a former exotic dancer – now making strides as a professional executive and ready to become a wife.

 

 

How did you become a stripper?

When I turned 18, my top priority was to “grow up” and become independent as soon as possible. To me, true independence meant never having to ask my parents for money — though they were more than willing to provide it. I had small job at little store, and I got a scholarship to help with my tuition, but living in the city was not cheap for a single woman. My meager income wasn’t nearly enough to survive on, and it drove me nuts. I felt so disillusioned and trapped. Just before my 19th birthday, I saw an ad for an “amateur night” contest at a local strip club. I’d always been a pretty repressed young lady — perfect grades, respectable hobbies, never so much as a parking ticket — but something about the idea of exotic dancing captivated my imagination.

 

 

How did stripping effect your ideas about sexuality and commitment?

Stripping taught me that “chemistry” — for lack of a better word — can explode in very unlikely pairings. To this day, my strongest friendships with men fall into that gray zone between “I want to know you” and “I want to sleep with you.” Learning to feel comfortable in that zone, without having to put a label on it, was a big part of my coming-out process.

 

 

You have professional career now. How did you make the extreme transition?

Like many young people finding their way, I have worked many jobs as an assistant producer at an independent film company, got a research grant to study alternative medicine and doctor-patient relationships, earned my helicopter pilots license, read voraciously and developed a writing “voice.” Once I made the commitment to complete my undergraduate degree, I went full-throttle, taking extra courses during regular semesters and squeezing in even more credits during winter and summer school sessions. I wound up graduating with my BA at the exact same time as my high school friends — even though I’d taken a significant “detour!”

 

 

 Do you regret your past?

I honestly have no regrets. Every intricate part of my past whether good or bad has made me the strong, independent, woman I am today. I have developed a distinct way of handling various personalities, a firm voice in leadership & good decision making. This has empowered me to take the appropriate actions needed on a daily basis in a crucial role, in order to strategically manage my business sector.   

 

 

How do you explain your past to a potential mate?

I believe, I use the no hold punches approach to dating. If the relationship develops after a period of time and the gentleman has earned the honor of knowing my history, I have no problem with sharing. If he is the one, and we are meant to be together, then being truthful and honest about what I want & need in a relationship as well as my past would be no problem. I just look forward to meeting the man of my dreams, in the meantime, I’m just focused on preparing myself for him in every aspect of my life.

 

 

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