Trent Shelton, a motivational speaker presented the topic on men and women and the levels of respect.

“Men let’s stop disrespecting women and women let’s stop disrespecting men. All men and women aren’t bad, it’s just the ones you choose to date. Not saying it’s ok for someone to break your heart but you should be mindful of the type  of person you choose to give your heart to.”

Many would say the overall concept and definition of dating has definitely change and a lot of ways are not traditional. With the continuous  growth of technology and resources such as matchmakers, dating websites and online dating. With these changes or even when traditionally dating, people tend to fall in one type of category or are drawn to the same thing which can lead to the same results, disrespect being one of them.

Rather people want to believe it or not change can be intimidating which is why they usually go for what they know, it’s obtainable, predictable and safe. At times we rather be comfortable instead of accepting change  but expect different results . Instead of going after what your heart desires and wants try giving it something in needs. It may not be what your use and may be something different but at times change is needed to make things better.

Are you ready to accept change?