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Enjoy Life

Posted on: January 31st, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle 10 Comments

16 days left until Cupid comes to strike you with love!

Lesson 11: If you have just gotten out of a relationship, are you ready to date again? If you have just gotten out of one relationship but want to start dating, make sure that you are 100% sure to start dating again. Make sure you have done the following: given yourself time to heal, taken some time for self-assessment, gotten help if you need it, and know the signs that you are ready to start dating. It’s healthy to grieve a little over a lost relationship- vent it out with friends and/or family. Don’t let feelings of loneliness or revenge make you rush into a rebound relationship. Reflect but don’t dwell on your past relationship and learn from it. Enjoy single life for a while- make plans to go out and try new things with good company. Enjoy life with your hobbies and renew your self-confidence. Make sure that you are free from relationship baggage before jumping back into the dating scene. Go at your own pace! There is no pressure on you to get right into another relationship.


Taking Control

Posted on: January 26th, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

Countdown to Valentine’s Day: 21 days

Lesson #6 is about “taking control”: You have to realize that you have to take control of your own life. You are the captain in charge of your ship– no one else. You should be an independent, happy, goal-oriented and strong person before you start getting into a serious relationship. Realize your self-worth and know that you deserve to be treated well by your potential mate. Don’t be afraid to tell someone what you like and your opinions but realize that you may not always be right. Stay classy and in control.