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Nights

Posted on: September 6th, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

Nights like these my mind wanders about the relationship

The relationship that pushed me to the brink

My emotions have diminished but they are far from gone

I find myself relating my life to the words of every slow song that plays on the quiet storm

But truthfully I just want my life back but the though of you being in my future is far from gone and no part of me would deny it

My heart deepens at every sound that reminds me of you, your beauty, your laughter and your smile

As I listen to a song with no words my mind speaks loud and clear, letting my know that love is not only a verb but a process that goes on

Though I wish I could find an end to this song of no words because it has been in my head for far too long.

Levels of Respect

Posted on: August 31st, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

Trent Shelton, a motivational speaker presented the topic on men and women and the levels of respect.

“Men let’s stop disrespecting women and women let’s stop disrespecting men. All men and women aren’t bad, it’s just the ones you choose to date. Not saying it’s ok for someone to break your heart but you should be mindful of the type of person you choose to give your heart to.”

Many would say the overall concept and definition of dating has definitely change and a lot of ways are not traditional. With the continuous growth of technology and resources such as matchmakers, dating websites and online dating. With these changes or even when traditionally dating, people tend to fall in one type of category or are drawn to the same thing which can lead to the same results, disrespect being one of them.

Rather people want to believe it or not change can be intimidating which is why they usually go for what they know, it’s obtainable, predictable and safe. At times we rather be comfortable instead of accepting change but expect different results . Instead of going after what your heart desires and wants try giving it something in needs. It may not be what your use and may be something different but at times change is needed to make things better.

Are you ready to accept change?

The Balance

Posted on: July 13th, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

How important is the physicality in a relationship? Can it be the making or breaking point at times or is it somewhat unnoticed?

Physical intimacy is very important within a relationship. Sure it may need other aspects to aide and support the notion but let alone it is still important. For those who have been in relationships or commitments for years will explain how keeping the fire burning can be a very challenging situation at times but without it a glitch can arise within your relationship.

Most women are naturally in tune with their emotions leading them to be strong in that aspect; even thought they can be looked upon as emotional beings. This is why they look forward to the emotional bond being shared within a relationship but love to combine the emotional and the physical. Men also can be very in tuned with their emotions but are not as easily shown like those of a woman. Men are truly physical beings but a man who can combined both aspects within a relationship will truly make his lady happy.

A relationship should entail many characteristics such as commitment, loyalty, trust but don’t forget the adventure, enjoyment, excitement and keeping things feeling fresh and new those are the key things to elongating a relationship. You wouldn’t let a rose bush just shrivel and die you care for it so it can blossom and grow.

-C.Johnson

Kamikaze

Posted on: July 11th, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

Kamikaze love….

In too deep from the jump

I have placed my all, my everything

Laid out for us both

I just want you to see the feelings that lie deep inside of a tough shell

I want you to know everything because this is my last and final love

If I’m diving in there is not coming back

Either we stay here together or I’ll disappear forever

No more breakups to makeups

I’m done with wanting and yearning

I love loving you, I love us but if it ever ends

There is no more love.

-C.Johnson

Life Partners

Posted on: July 9th, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

Most people that you know want a life partner but how will they know when they have found that special someone?

Do you feel being in love automatically presents you with your life partner or is it a stepping stool to work on the idea? There is nothing wrong with wanting a successful relationship, having certain preferences or dealing with the likes and dislike of a relationship but by finding a life partner can bring a balance and compliments within it.

Is it the feeling, emotions and rush of excitement when you’re around them or the emptiness, loneliness and want, when you’re not around them. As most emotions are, love itself can easily be one of the most confusing concepts to deal with because there are so many variables. Falling in love or out of love is easier than one would think but finding someone to be with for the rest of your life takes more time than most think. There’s a difference between loving someone, being in love with them and choosing to spend the rest of your life with them because even marriages at times are broken before death do you part.

Though fairy tales and love stories on the movie screens look and sound nice. there is no complete truth in how “true love” is found. True love has its ups and downs but within those challenges people are able to find what they are looking for in their significant others. Within the process of finding a life partner one should experience the journey to do so because it will not just appear in front of your eyes or drop from the sky.

-C.Johnson

Social Media and Your Relationship

Posted on: June 29th, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

Social media has become one of the largest bases of networking within our society. Most people are so in tune with social media, it is the first thing they check when they wake up, when they are on a lunch break or even before they go to bed. The influence of this form of communication is so heavy it has even taken over the dating world.

Rather people know it or not or even deny it, social media does influence relationships especially in the present time. You will know if you are a participant within this stage if you have ever seen a post on Facebook or Instagram about your significant other that made you look at them twice, question where they have been in the last few hours or who another person is.

Social media has it perks as well as it downfalls when it comes to relationships and this is because so many people express their whole life story through these sources, if you’re mad at him or her you can easily post a tweet on twitter or a status on Facebook. Even if you are happy and everything appears to be in bliss you can express that as well but basically the exposure of your life is in the spotlight of millions of people; how does this affect a relationship?

-C.Johnson

Is Age Only a Number?

Posted on: June 28th, 2013 by Executive Matchmaker Romella Battle

Do you believe that love grows better with age or is it a mythical sense of thought?

Along with the list of standards, preferences are usually next in line to be evaluated when looking for a mate. A common preference when dating is age, which has been one of the main inclinations when it comes to finding that special someone. At times the differences in age can be frowned upon when it is evident, on the display and breaking the social norm of what the majority are use to. Truth be told, the factors based on age are forever changing and exalt to different perspectives when it comes to dating outside or within specific age groups.

Younger women are dating older men and older women are looking at younger men, times are forever changing. Many may not realize it but some of the time people go outside of there age group not only to try something new but to go against the grain and step outside the comfort zone is a risk a person is willing to take to find exactly what they are looking for in a person. Overall it is the individual preference in what a person likes or may even grow to love and at times it can be a result from a difference in age, style of dating and what you will do to go after what you want.

Some people believe in dating those who are more mature because they may have more to offer than someone who is young; such as experience, maturity and wisdom. When a person is on the younger side and fresh to the dating market and still experiencing the realm of dating, they are not use to or aware of a lot of things that a older person with more experience with dating is use to.

Love is an emotion that is supposed to be expressive with a positive notion to share one’s feelings not discrimination in how one may feel or who or what they prefer.

-C.Johnson